Why Being Forgiven Isn’t The Whole Story
Excerpt from "The Gospel: Powers And Principalities"

Tom Bedford • Senior Pastor
August 30, 2026

8 Minute Read

Forgiveness clears the record of your sin. Deliverance frees you from its source. Salvation includes both, and if you have only ever been taught the first half, you will spend your Christian life confessing the same darkness you were given authority to break.

Being born again was not handed to you so you could be a good boy or girl and keep your nose clean. It was given to you so you would have power and authority over the power of hell and over the rulers of darkness, in your prayer life, in your obedience, and through the gospel of Jesus Christ. His rulership of the spiritual world in Jesus Christ brought back our ability to live for God and to see His righteousness prevail in the earth over the powers of darkness. If you do not understand that, you do not understand your commission.

What Is The Difference Between Forgiveness And Deliverance?

Your salvation does more than forgive you for participating in darkness. It gives you authority over darkness, and it gives you the power to set other people free from it. Let that sink in, because the implication is uncomfortable. You cannot remain in darkness and think you are going to set somebody free of it.

So salvation has to include deliverance from Satan and from the nature of evil that works in this world. Being forgiven for the failures is one thing. Being delivered from the source is another thing entirely. Most of us were handed the first and never told the second existed.

Jesus Called The Devil A Father, Not A Force

When Jesus confronted the Pharisees, He did not describe Satan as an impersonal influence floating somewhere out there. He said, "You are of your father, the devil." He calls the devil a father. "You want the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks, it is a lie. He speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies" (John 8:44).

Satan is a father of lies, and he is a father of evil. That word father matters, because fathers pass on a nature. They do not simply commit isolated acts. They reproduce something in the people who belong to them.

Where Did Sin Actually Come From?

Some Christians would say that you are the originator of sin, that it is inherently in you, that you are the author of it, and that this is why you need to be forgiven. I would say something different. Before man was ever made, there was a devil, and he was the original sinner, the energy behind sin in man. Man, by falling in his nature, has used that energy for evil, and in turn becomes creative at it and becomes his own source of it. But Satan is the author, the father of lying and deception, and the evil one.

Sin did not originate in humans. It originated in the devil. And to this day, demonic powers seek to rule humanity through deception and seduction. How do they do it? They do it by baiting and seducing the sinful nature that is in us, working through self-interest, which is a constant, and through sinful passions.

So when you get a new Father, it is because you had an old father. You were saved from your old father because you have now come into relationship with the Father in Heaven through Jesus Christ. You have to be delivered from an old father in order to walk with this new Father.

Why "Deliver Us From Evil" Is Part Of The Lord's Prayer

Jesus made this so simple. "Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven." You begin with the Father. Then comes your dependency, your repentance of sin, and your forgiveness of others. And then it comes back around to this: "deliver us from temptation, and from evil and the evil one" (Matthew 6:9-13).

Why is the tempter's path in the Lord's Prayer at all? Why is the evil one named there? Because you do not worship the Father and simply ignore that this other thing exists. Repentance and dependence on God is what delivers you from it and connects you to Him.

Look at the shape of that prayer. Sandwiched in the middle of two places, God the Father on one side and the evil one on the other, is you. Your dependency, your repentance, and your forgiveness of others set you in the Kingdom instead of on that other path. Standing in one place, darkness has you. Standing in the other, the Father of lights has you, and with Him there is no shifting shadow. That is where the Kingdom, the power, and the glory are.

There Is No Third Space

Ephesians chapter 2 is a masterpiece that explains the world you are living in right now. Paul writes, "You were dead in your trespasses and sins, in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience" (Ephesians 2:1-2).

Stay on that phrase for a moment: the course of this world. The course of this world is everything outside of knowing Jesus Christ. There is no third space. There is God in His Kingdom, and there is the father of lies in his domain. There is no other place where you get to say, "I don't want to be in that, but I'm not too hot on this either, so can I live over here?" That is a deception. There is the Kingdom of God, and there is darkness. That is it.

When we did not know God, we were living in it and operating in it. We walked in it. And who is guiding it? The prince of the power of the air, who works out of a nature of evil and disobedience, in people who want to be disobedient. That compelling darkness of wickedness is now at work in disobedient people.

Here is what that means for you. God delivered you from your sin, but He also delivered you from the nature to be disobedient to God that Satan loves to revel in. Satan cannot walk into your house. Demons cannot walk into your house and take it over. But you can absolutely open the door and give it to them.

Can Christians Have Demons?

I took an enormous amount of heat as a young believer for saying that Christians could have demons. I got thrown out of churches over it. People would tell me they were really mad at me, and I would tell them they probably had demons.

Here is what I actually want you to hear. You can have whatever you want to have. You can decide tonight to go down the street and participate willfully in dark deeds, and demonic powers will take advantage of your disobedience and come right back.

Your job is not simply to be forgiven of things. Your job is to be delivered of the things that make you do what needs to be forgiven.

What About Everyday Sin And Failure?

We live in a fallen world and we are not perfect. We need forgiveness every day of our lives, and we need the blood of Jesus at all times. None of that is in question, and no honest reading of this should make you think you have to be flawless before God will have you.

But there is a difference between daily failure and willful service. I do not need to go walk in willful disobedience, serve demonic spirits, and then say, "Well, I'm a Christian and I've been forgiven, so I'm dark and I do dark stuff when no one is looking, but I'm saved." No. You will have no authority over the powers of darkness until you stop serving them.

Where To Go From Here

The gospel of Jesus Christ is what sets you free. That is the whole point of it: to set people free from the power of hell, to bring forgiveness of sin, and to separate people from demonic spirits.

So the honest question is not whether you have been forgiven. If you have come to the Father through Jesus Christ, you have been. The question is whether you understand the difference between forgiveness and deliverance, and whether you are still holding open a door that God already gave you the authority to close.

Being forgiven is real, and it is yours. It is simply not the whole story. The rest of the story is that you were given authority over the very darkness you were forgiven for, and the power to set other people free from it too.

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It gives you authority over darkness, and it gives you the power to set other people free from it. Let that sink in, because the implication is uncomfortable. You cannot remain in darkness and think you are going to set somebody free of it. So salvation has to include deliverance from Satan and from the nature of evil that works in this world. Being forgiven for the failures is one thing. Being delivered from the source is another thing entirely. Most of us were handed the first and never told the second existed. Jesus Called The Devil A Father, Not A Force When Jesus confronted the Pharisees, He did not describe Satan as an impersonal influence floating somewhere out there. He said, "You are of your father, the devil." He calls the devil a father. "You want the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks, it is a lie. 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Because you do not worship the Father and simply ignore that this other thing exists. Repentance and dependence on God is what delivers you from it and connects you to Him. Look at the shape of that prayer. Sandwiched in the middle of two places, God the Father on one side and the evil one on the other, is you. Your dependency, your repentance, and your forgiveness of others set you in the Kingdom instead of on that other path. Standing in one place, darkness has you. Standing in the other, the Father of lights has you, and with Him there is no shifting shadow. That is where the Kingdom, the power, and the glory are. There Is No Third Space Ephesians chapter 2 is a masterpiece that explains the world you are living in right now. Paul writes, "You were dead in your trespasses and sins, in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience" (Ephesians 2:1-2). 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Tom Bedford

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July 19, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
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You Do Not Have to Be a Pastor, You Just Have to Be Born Again I have been a Christian for forty-four years, and I will tell you the truth about how it worked for me. When I first got born again, I was a lot wilder and a lot less refined than I am now. God did not teach me to live this way through great visions. I never took a trip to the third heaven and came back with a revelation to go transform the world. Instead, He taught me through something much smaller and much simpler. Sometimes I would just be somewhere, and the Lord would say, "Look at that person." And there was this little prompting on the inside. I call it the nudge. If you have walked with God for any length of time, you know exactly what I am talking about. The First Thing: Learn to Follow the Nudge Here is how the nudge would work. The Lord would say, "Look at that person," and I would look. Then He would say it again. And I would think, "They are going to think I am weird." He would say, "Look at them again." Then would come the harder part: "Go pray for them." And more than once I answered back, "I do not want to do that. They did not ask me to pray for them." He would simply say, "I asked you to pray for them." Have you ever been in a moment like that, where the nudge was working and you did not want it to? Where you got clammy and sweaty and stirred up inside? I have paced a Walmart parking lot, praying quietly to work up my faith, just to walk up to a stranger and say hello. So this is the first thing I want to give you. Learn to follow the nudge. You do not have to manufacture it. You do not have to create it. You just have to follow it. What Does It Mean to Be Led by the Holy Spirit? Being led by the Spirit is not as strange or as dramatic as people make it sound. It does not always come as some overwhelming, otherworldly experience. Most of the time, the nudge is simply compassion, pointed. You look at someone, and your heart goes out to them. You see the pain they are in, and something inside you says, "I see you." When you notice a person who is in distress, harassed and hurting like a sheep with no shepherd, and your heart breaks for them, that is the nudge too (Matthew 9:36). This is not about showing up to entertain yourself or to have a spiritual moment in public. It is about love. Love is greater than prophecy, and it is greater than knowledge (1 Corinthians 13). When you are moved by compassion, God is all about that. Now, sometimes the Spirit does get your attention in more physical ways, and He will use whatever teaches you to pay attention. Early in my walk, whenever the Lord wanted me to notice someone, my cheeks would flush blood red. I would be sitting at a table in a restaurant, not saying a word, and my wife would look at me and say, "Something is going to happen." I would ask, "What do you mean?" She would say, "Your face is red," and then she would start scanning the room, wondering who it was. Other times my hands would begin to burn hot, and I would know something was about to happen. God was patiently teaching me, "This is how you know I am here." But even with all of that, most of the time it is still the compassion that points the way. The Second Thing: Five Words That Open Every Door Once compassion has pointed you toward someone, here is the second thing, and it could not be simpler. It is five words: "Can I pray for you?" I could tell you stories all day long that started with that one question. Who is going to be offended enough to say no? A few people might, and for them you will need a different approach, but most people respond with, "Please." I was recently at a client's house. I have a side business, and this man has been my client for ten years. He is a lovely guy, and he does not know the Lord. Every time I am there, he offers me marijuana, even though he knows I am a pastor. He does not even realize I would not do that, and honestly, I love him. So I was at his house, and I asked him, "Can I pray for you?" He said, "I do not believe in a sky God, but please pray." So I laid my hands on him and prayed for him, and he started crying. He told me, "Thank God you are my friend. Thank God you love me. You have been such a good friend to me." A grown man, standing there in tears. He did not come to Jesus in that moment. But I understood something. That one question, "Can I pray for you?" opened a conversation I was not expecting, and that conversation will lead to more conversations. Sometimes those five words are the doorway that everything else crosses over. So just try it out. You Are Not Depending on Your Own Ability When these two things work together, when the nudge points you and then you ask, that is the moment where everything becomes possible. And here is the freeing part: your dependency does not rest on how good you are at any of this. It rests on the eternal Spirit who lives inside of you. Even if you have not been a Christian very long, the Holy Spirit has been here a long time. He has loved these people with an everlasting love; He has loved them a long time (Jeremiah 31:3). The one living inside of you already knows exactly what to do. That is why Jesus told His disciples not to worry about what they would say, because it would not be them speaking but the Spirit of their Father speaking in them (Matthew 10:19-20). You do not have to work up the perfect words. When the nudge hits, the Spirit of your Father is the one prompting you to go and offer those five words. You yield, you ask, and He shows you what to do. Where to Go From Here Imagine what would happen if ordinary believers were simply released into their cities to follow the nudge. You do not even have to create it. You just have to follow it. When you see someone in distress, harassed and hurting, and compassion points you toward them, go. Offer a heart of love, and ask, "Can I pray for you?" Love has a look. Love has a sound. Love has a way about it, and when it is in you, other people can see it, even people you have never met. So the next time your heart goes out to a stranger, do not talk yourself out of it. Follow the nudge, offer those five words, and watch what He does. The door swings wide, and the Holy Spirit is right there.

Tom Bedford

Senior Pastor