The first words God speaks to people who have failed Him come in the form of a question: "Where are you?" In Genesis 3:9, right after Adam and Eve sin and hide among the trees, God comes looking for them. That question reveals His heart toward sinners. He is seeking reconciliation, and He is still asking the same question today.
The story doesn't end with Adam and Eve hiding in the trees, because they aren't the only ones walking in the garden. God is walking there too. When we narrow in on what He says, I want you to hear it as more than the first words. I want you to hear it as the word, from today and through all of human history.
What Did God Say to Adam and Eve After They Sinned?
God comes into the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and Eve are hiding in the trees. What does God say? He says, "Where are you?"
If you can understand it, that is a loving father coming and saying, "Where are you? Where'd you go? Where have you been?" A prosecutor running an investigation would sound very different. God isn't asking because He's looking to punish them. He's looking to bring them out.
Here's the truth: do you think Eden is so big and God is so small that Adam could actually hide from Him?
Why Would an All-Knowing God Ask "Where Are You?"
My sons have hidden from me many, many times over the years. With the exception of one time, when Aidan was eight years old and hid a couple of blocks away and his mom couldn't find him, they haven't been good at it. I know where you are. I know where the kids are. They're never hidden that well.
God knows where Adam and Eve are. What He's giving them is an opportunity to say, "Here I am." All the questions God asks in this moment are simply opportunities for Adam and Eve to come, confess, and bring themselves into the light. That's all it is.
When we look at it that way, we know God isn't there to punish you or looking to destroy you. He's looking to redeem you. And in that redemption is life for you, rather than the death you've found yourself in.
Who Told You That You Were Naked?
But they hid. Genesis 3:9-10 puts it this way: "But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, 'Where are you?' And he said, 'I heard the sound of You in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.'"
Then God asks, "Who told you that you were naked?" (Genesis 3:11). In other words, where are you getting this identity from? Who told you that? Who told you there's a problem here? Before that moment, there was no problem.
God keeps asking: "Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?" And the man answers, "The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me fruit of the tree, and I ate" (Genesis 3:11-12). Then the Lord says to the woman, "What is this that you have done?" And the woman says, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate" (Genesis 3:13).
The serpent wasn't there to give an account, so I don't know who he was going to blame. But they hid.
God Is Still Asking "Where Are You?"
Before there was a law, before there was a temple, and before there was a sacrifice, there was just a simple question: "Where are you?"
He's asking the same question today. And here's what's so good about this: as the people of God, as we're in Christ, we get to go around and talk to people and ask, "Where are you? God's looking for you. Did you know He's looking for you right now? God loves you. Let me tell you about Him. He made you. He knows there's a problem here, but He's here to fix it. He's looking for you. Where are you?"
The first words God speaks to sinners in the Bible seek their reconciliation. That's His heart.
True Facts, Wrong Posture
I was on a road trip across Wyoming with my kids. If you've ever been on a multi-day road trip with your children, and one of them is seven years old, you know the conversations aren't always that robust. Unless the seven-year-old is Titus, in which case the conversations are very robust.
At one point I said, "Hey, we're going to listen to the Bible. We'll start in the beginning." We got three chapters in, right to this moment in the garden, and Titus got angry. He asked a question, and I explained that Adam was responsible. He got so mad. He said, "Why is it always the man's fault?"
I thought, that is a grasp of spiritual authority at seven years old, and it's good for you to have. Because in a home, let me tell you something. Dad, husband, you may not be guilty, but you are responsible. Know the difference. You're there to fix it. Sometimes there's a nuance between responsibility and guilt. I'll put it that way.
So I had to explain this for about 40 miles at 75 miles an hour and talk him down, because he'd been getting in trouble in class over what he viewed as preferential treatment for the girls. I told him, "No, you're just louder, man. You've just got to be sneakier." Then, right away: "Don't do that. That's not a good thing."
But the point is this: Adam had true facts and the wrong posture. Did she give it to him? Yes. His facts were true. His posture was wrong. The posture should have been, "Lord, help!"
What Happens When You Confess Your Sin to God?
David says this in Psalm 32:3-5: "For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away... I acknowledged my sin to You, and I did not cover my iniquity... and You forgave the iniquity of my sin."
This is the beauty of the cross. This is the beauty of Jesus. When you are sitting in your sin, you are wasting away. Just like that fig leaf getting more and more brittle, you're going to have to keep reaching for more and more things to cover your nakedness. But at some point you say, "I just confess."
And what happens then? I experience His forgiveness. I experience His life. 1 John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Confession is simply agreeing with God. There's no groveling in it.
Where Are You Right Now?
You're not hidden in your sins. You can simply say, "Lord, I've sinned. I've fallen short. I need Your help." That's no surprise to Him. He already knew you'd fallen short, and He already provided help.
The first words God spoke to Adam and Eve after they failed Him are the same words He speaks to you now. His question, "Where are you?", is simply an invitation to the confession that says, "I need You, Lord."

















