Why Your Kids Learn Faith By Watching You
Excerpt from "Declare: One Generation To Another"

Tom Bedford • Senior Pastor
August 9, 2026

7 Minute Read

Children learn faith by watching their parents live it. Not by hearing what you know about the Bible, but by seeing how you know God when life gets hard. If you're wondering how to pass your faith to your children, start there, because how you raise your child determines what kind of foundation you are laying in them.

Every decision you make right now is forming that foundation. If you have kids, this is true of you. And if you don't have kids but you serve children in some capacity, it's true of you as well. How you react to God, how you react to storms, and how you react to life is building something underneath the children who are watching.

What Your Children Actually Need to See

They have to see you, mom and dad, making choices in private at home when no one's looking. Here's why that matters more than any lesson you could sit them down and teach: they don't need to know what you know about the Bible. They need to know how you know Him, and how you know that He knows you.

That distinction changes everything. Bible information can be handed over in a classroom. A relationship has to be witnessed. Your children need to see your relationship with God so that when they watch you face something, they see how you know God and how God responds to your life.

When God Leads You Through the Storm Instead of Around It

Here's the part no parent volunteers for. God comes, and He doesn't always make the storm go away. Sometimes He leads you through it to the other side instead, because sometimes God wants you to go right through the storm rather than save you from it.

That's not the version of faith most of us would choose for our families, but it's the version your children need to see, because it's the one that proves the foundation holds. Testimonies are great after the test. They're hard in the middle of it. And the middle is exactly where your kids are watching you.

What I Want My Children to Say About Me

When I stand before God and leave this planet, I want to know one thing. Did You know me, and was I pleasing to You? Was my life lived in such a way that my children, even in the humanity of my weaknesses, saw something bigger than my flesh?

I hope they'll say something like this: dad was an interesting guy, but I'll say this much, the man knew God. He might not have been perfect at it, but the man knew God, and he showed me what it was like to know God.

That's not a low bar. That's the entire inheritance. My mom showed me what it was like to know God, and I learned how to know God by watching how she knew God when I was a child. Now I'm teaching my children how to know God the way I know God.

One Generation Declares It to the Next

My wife and I both had mothers who came to the Lord later in life, but long before we did, they began to declare God's works to us. Psalm 145:4 says that one generation shall praise His works to another.

We had to watch our mothers, and then ultimately our fathers, come to the Lord and face the trial of their own humanity. We watched them surrender their pride, their flesh, their pursuit of whatever their vanity desired, and surrender in brokenness to God.

It made an impact. When my mother came to Jesus, it was a ticking clock, and it was only a matter of time before I was going to be there with her, because she kept declaring who God was and I saw God shift her foundation in front of my eyes. I watched God shift her foundation right in front of me.

She wasn't perfect. She was a brand new Christian. But the foundation shift was so real that it terrified me, because I thought, whatever she has, I don't have, and I am in big trouble.

My wife had a similar experience. Her mother came to Jesus and the foundation shift was radical. By the time I met her mother, I was 20 years old, and all she did with me was declare God's mighty works, teach me Scriptures, tell me Bible stories, and tell me testimonies from her own life.

The Decision We Made Before We Had Children

We made a decision when we got married. We said we may not be rich, we may not be all this or that, and we may not be famous preachers, but my God, if I lose my children, what will it have been worth?

I would rather have all of my children in the house of God living on a foundation of truth than have the things of this world.

How about you? How many parents would say the same thing, that it doesn't matter what they have in terms of material things and houses, but they cannot lose their children? They cannot grow up, go out to the world, and collapse.

Why You Can't Build This Foundation Alone

No church is a perfect place. You could walk into most of them and rightly say it could all be done better, and the honest answer is, yes, probably. We're trying. But here's what matters more: we may not have it all figured out, but what we do want is to know God and have Him know us. He'll get us through. He'll get us there. He'll get you there.

There's something about building it together that helps the foundation become solid. I watched a group of children put on a play once, and what I loved about it was that they were working with each other. One child loved another child enough to come help them in their calamity and bring them along.

We're going to need each other for there to be a foundation that has power. It can't just be you. Your kids need to see other people living it too.

Where Kids Really Learn to Worship

When you see a room full of children dancing, singing, and rejoicing, where do you think they actually learned that? Do you think they learned it from the worship leader? They learned it from mom and dad.

Because when you're driving down the road facing a trial, they can see you in the rearview mirror with tears running down your face, saying, God, You will be here. Your presence will lead us and Your power will save us.

What's going on, dad? You okay? Yeah, I'm good. Just praying. What are you praying about? All things. Just praying.

They know when you need God. They can feel it in the house, they can feel it in their hearts, and they know it.

How to Pass Your Faith to Your Children

When they see you choosing God in the hard moments, acting like a man of God and a woman of God, you are sowing into a foundation of rock and teaching them that they can know God too. What you're going to find out on the other side of all of it is that He knew us.

So tell your children stories and testimonies, and help build their foundation of faith. Then go live stories and testimonies, so they see a foundation of faith actually being lived out in front of them. That's how it gets passed down, through what your children watch you know.

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August 23, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
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August 16, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
Why God Feels Silent When You’re Struggling
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How long, Lord, will You remain silent? When God's Answer Is Not the Answer You Wanted God doesn't stay quiet. He says, you know what, I'll answer. But listen to the answer. In Habakkuk 1:5, God tells him to look at the nations and pay attention, because you will be shocked and amazed, for I will do something in your lifetime that you will not believe, even though you are forewarned. That sounds great. Who doesn't love to be shocked and amazed for the better? Habakkuk has to be on the edge of his chair thinking, this is going to be good. I hear revival. I hear things changing. I hear things shaking. This is exactly what I've been waiting for. Then the Lord tells him what He is actually about to do. He is about to empower the Babylonians. He describes them as a ruthless and greedy nation who will sweep across the surface of the earth and seize dwelling places that do not belong to them, because they are frightening and they are terrifying. How would you like that to be the answer to your prayer? Something is coming, but it isn't what you want to see, because He is raising up your enemy. How Could a Just God Allow Something Like This? So Habakkuk changes the question. He stops asking where God is and starts asking why God isn't doing anything about it. He brings a second complaint in Habakkuk 1:12. Notice what he does. He starts reminding God of who God is. Lord, surely You have been active from ancient times. Surely You're the God who created the heavens and the earth. You created all men. You created all species. Clearly You are capable, my sovereign God, and You are immortal. Lord, You have made them an instrument of judgment. Surely God is too just to tolerate evil, and unable to condone wrongdoing. Then comes the question underneath the question: Why do You put up with treacherous people? Why do You say nothing when the wicked devour those more righteous than they are? Habakkuk is trying to remind God of His own character. God, Your word says You are holy. Your word says You are righteous. Your word says You are trustworthy and just. So how could a just God empower the Babylonians? Put another way, how could God empower something that feels like oppression to me, something that feels like resistance against me? Habakkuk cannot understand how God could possibly use this. That question is not rebellion. That question is faith trying to do math it doesn't have the numbers for yet. What God Told Habakkuk to Write Down The Lord has mercy on Habakkuk's unbelief in chapter two. He tells him to write the message down and to record it legibly on tablets, for the message is a witness to what is decreed, and it gives reliable testimony about how matters will turn out. In other words, you can take this to the bank. My word is good. What the Lord is saying is that His word will not come back void, regardless of whether you understand His ways, His methods, His timing, or His reasoning. Surely the Word of the Lord will come through, and His Word will not remain void. It will certainly come to pass. I have no idea what you're walking through right now. I have no idea what battles you're facing, or what questions you're carrying about your future, your family, or your career. But if we could just realize what Habakkuk had to realize, that the Word of God remains true over our lives and remains true over our families and will not become void, it changes how we wait. What Does It Mean That the Righteous Will Live by Faith? Habakkuk 2:4 is the epitome of the response the Lord asks for when we're going through adversity, trial, pain, and heartache. The righteous will live by faith. Read that again, because God is showing Habakkuk something specific here. Faith is not just trusting God when His actions make sense and everything is clear. It isn't assuming that when everything is finally in order, we can then affirm the faithfulness of God. Faith is trusting the nature and the ways of God when His actions exceed all of our understanding. That's why Hebrews 11:1 describes faith as the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not yet seen.Read that slowly, because it carries real weight for anyone in a season of silence. If I don't see it, God is still faithful. If the substance doesn't feel like it's working, and I'm not feeling it, it is still working. Why? Because faith is the evidence of things that have not yet been seen. It is the reality of that promise already working on our heart. Where This Leaves You If God feels silent while you're struggling, Habakkuk gives you permission to say so out loud. He asked twice. He brought his confusion, his frustration, and his sense of injustice straight to God, and God didn't rebuke him for it. God answered him, and then God told him to write the answer down so he would still have it when the waiting got long. The silence you're in is not proof that God has stopped moving. Sometimes God is doing something in your lifetime you would not believe even if you were forewarned. Your job in the meantime is the one given to Habakkuk. The righteous will live by faith, trusting the character of God when His methods make no sense, and holding onto a Word that will not return void.

Alex Kidd

Worship Team Leader

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August 9, 2026 • 7 Minute Read
Why Your Kids Learn Faith By Watching You
Children learn faith by watching their parents live it. Not by hearing what you know about the Bible, but by seeing how you know God when life gets hard. If you're wondering how to pass your faith to your children, start there, because how you raise your child determines what kind of foundation you are laying in them. Every decision you make right now is forming that foundation. If you have kids, this is true of you. And if you don't have kids but you serve children in some capacity, it's true of you as well. How you react to God, how you react to storms, and how you react to life is building something underneath the children who are watching. What Your Children Actually Need to See They have to see you, mom and dad, making choices in private at home when no one's looking. Here's why that matters more than any lesson you could sit them down and teach: they don't need to know what you know about the Bible. They need to know how you know Him, and how you know that He knows you. That distinction changes everything. Bible information can be handed over in a classroom. A relationship has to be witnessed. Your children need to see your relationship with God so that when they watch you face something, they see how you know God and how God responds to your life. When God Leads You Through the Storm Instead of Around It Here's the part no parent volunteers for. God comes, and He doesn't always make the storm go away. Sometimes He leads you through it to the other side instead, because sometimes God wants you to go right through the storm rather than save you from it. That's not the version of faith most of us would choose for our families, but it's the version your children need to see, because it's the one that proves the foundation holds. Testimonies are great after the test. They're hard in the middle of it. And the middle is exactly where your kids are watching you. What I Want My Children to Say About Me When I stand before God and leave this planet, I want to know one thing. Did You know me, and was I pleasing to You? Was my life lived in such a way that my children, even in the humanity of my weaknesses, saw something bigger than my flesh? I hope they'll say something like this: dad was an interesting guy, but I'll say this much, the man knew God. He might not have been perfect at it, but the man knew God, and he showed me what it was like to know God. That's not a low bar. That's the entire inheritance. My mom showed me what it was like to know God, and I learned how to know God by watching how she knew God when I was a child. Now I'm teaching my children how to know God the way I know God. One Generation Declares It to the Next My wife and I both had mothers who came to the Lord later in life, but long before we did, they began to declare God's works to us. Psalm 145:4 says that one generation shall praise His works to another. We had to watch our mothers, and then ultimately our fathers, come to the Lord and face the trial of their own humanity. We watched them surrender their pride, their flesh, their pursuit of whatever their vanity desired, and surrender in brokenness to God. It made an impact. When my mother came to Jesus, it was a ticking clock, and it was only a matter of time before I was going to be there with her, because she kept declaring who God was and I saw God shift her foundation in front of my eyes. I watched God shift her foundation right in front of me. She wasn't perfect. She was a brand new Christian. But the foundation shift was so real that it terrified me, because I thought, whatever she has, I don't have, and I am in big trouble. My wife had a similar experience. Her mother came to Jesus and the foundation shift was radical. By the time I met her mother, I was 20 years old, and all she did with me was declare God's mighty works, teach me Scriptures, tell me Bible stories, and tell me testimonies from her own life. The Decision We Made Before We Had Children We made a decision when we got married. We said we may not be rich, we may not be all this or that, and we may not be famous preachers, but my God, if I lose my children, what will it have been worth? I would rather have all of my children in the house of God living on a foundation of truth than have the things of this world. How about you? How many parents would say the same thing, that it doesn't matter what they have in terms of material things and houses, but they cannot lose their children? They cannot grow up, go out to the world, and collapse. Why You Can't Build This Foundation Alone No church is a perfect place. You could walk into most of them and rightly say it could all be done better, and the honest answer is, yes, probably. We're trying. But here's what matters more: we may not have it all figured out, but what we do want is to know God and have Him know us. He'll get us through. He'll get us there. He'll get you there. There's something about building it together that helps the foundation become solid. I watched a group of children put on a play once, and what I loved about it was that they were working with each other. One child loved another child enough to come help them in their calamity and bring them along. We're going to need each other for there to be a foundation that has power. It can't just be you. Your kids need to see other people living it too. Where Kids Really Learn to Worship When you see a room full of children dancing, singing, and rejoicing, where do you think they actually learned that? Do you think they learned it from the worship leader? They learned it from mom and dad. Because when you're driving down the road facing a trial, they can see you in the rearview mirror with tears running down your face, saying, God, You will be here. Your presence will lead us and Your power will save us. What's going on, dad? You okay? Yeah, I'm good. Just praying. What are you praying about? All things. Just praying. They know when you need God. They can feel it in the house, they can feel it in their hearts, and they know it. How to Pass Your Faith to Your Children When they see you choosing God in the hard moments, acting like a man of God and a woman of God, you are sowing into a foundation of rock and teaching them that they can know God too. What you're going to find out on the other side of all of it is that He knew us. So tell your children stories and testimonies, and help build their foundation of faith. Then go live stories and testimonies, so they see a foundation of faith actually being lived out in front of them. That's how it gets passed down, through what your children watch you know.

Tom Bedford

Senior Pastor

August 2, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
Why God Is Worthy No Matter What You're Facing
God is worthy of worship because of who He is, not because of what He does. That one truth is what makes worship possible on the worst day of your life. Your circumstances do not change His worth, which means your circumstances do not have to change your worship. But that truth is harder to live than it is to say, and most of us have never noticed how much of our worship is actually built on something else. What's the Difference Between Worship and Gratitude? I know exactly what my own moments of "worship" tend to look like. I find a good parking spot, and that feels like a moment of worship. I'm moving a little fast down the highway, I notice a CHP officer sitting there, he doesn't whip around, and that feels like a moment of worship too. Not my finest example, I know. I step on the scale and the number went down instead of up, and there it is again. None of that is wrong. Gratitude is good. But look at the motivation underneath it. Every one of those moments depends on a favorable outcome, which means what I'm calling worship is really just relief with a spiritual accent. Jesus is worthy of worship always. When I step on the scale and the number goes up instead of down, He is still worthy, because the number does not touch His worth. When I get the $307 ticket, He is still worthy, and that one is on me, not Him. When I have to park in the back 40, He is still worthy. When I get a diagnosis I don't like, He is still worthy. When I'm healed, He is still worthy. My circumstances do not affect His worth, and so my circumstances do not have to affect my worship. That is hard, by the way. It is tough, because we live in a world that is completely and utterly broken and futile. It is just broken, and we live here. So we don't worship only because He answered a prayer, or only because we happened to feel His presence that morning. Do You Need the Right Atmosphere to Worship? I was in a city once with a group of young people, sitting in a worship service that simply was not landing. I don't know if the piano player had broken fingers or what was going on, but it was a bad day up there. No flow, no momentum, nothing. I looked down the row at those students, and they were dead. Completely disengaged. What they were waiting for was a certain atmosphere before they could enter in and worship. That was the moment I knew we had a serious problem. We needed an atmosphere to worship, and the reason we needed it is that we were not seeing Him clearly enough to understand that He is worthy of worship regardless of the room, the sound, or the mood. Who Is God? The Question Underneath Everything The good thing about asking why we worship is that it pushes us past the wrong question. The wrong question is, what has God done for me? The real question is, who is God? He is the God of the universe. You do not get to understand everything He does, because you are not Him. He sees all of time and all of creation as though it were happening right now. He holds the whole universe in the palm of His hand. If you understood everything there is to understand about God and why He does what He does, then by definition you would be Him. After a few decades of studying the Bible, this is what I have landed on: there is a God, and I am not Him. I don't get to understand everything. I get to trust that He is good. What Does "Holy, Holy, Holy" Mean in the Bible? There is a man in Scripture named John, one of the apostles, one of the first disciples of Jesus, and the one who lived the longest. Rome tried to kill him more than once. It was a rough life. He pastored in Ephesus for a season. He saw miracles happen in and around him. He knew Jesus intimately and personally. And at the end of his days he was in exile on an island, and God came in, pulled back the curtain, and said, let Me show you what heaven is like, and let Me show you what is to come. Some of you have experienced days when the barrier between what is seen and what is unseen feels a little thinner, when God shows you something. Some people would call that mystical. It isn't. That is just what happens when you walk with a God who is spirit, because we worship Him in spirit and in truth (John 4:24). But what John received was something else entirely. This was a vision. In Revelation 4:8, John describes four living creatures whose appearance is so strange and complex that no summary does them justice. He writes that they are around the throne, and "day and night they never cease to say, Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come." Day and night. They never stop. These unimaginable creatures that God created are so struck by His worth that night and day they are circling the throne with the same words. Heaven is not responding to changing circumstances. Nothing changes for them, and He is still worthy of everything. Two Visions, 800 Years Apart Eight hundred years before John, a man named Isaiah had a moment like that. In Isaiah 6:2-3, he describes angelic beings before the throne, and he writes that "one called to another and said, Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of hosts; the whole earth is full of His glory." Two men, 800 years apart, different covenants, different moments, and it is the same heaven with the same song. They were singing it in Isaiah's day, they were singing it in John's day, and they are singing it right now. Is It Clean, or Is It Clean Clean? Have you ever told your kids to go clean their room, then walked into said room and found it clean? Some of you are more drill sergeant than others, so I hear it is possible. It never once happened for me. Mine would head upstairs and take an hour on a job that did not require an hour, which means something else was happening up there. Eventually they would come back down, having half forgotten why they went up in the first place, and announce, "Dad, it's clean." And I would say, right, but is it clean clean? Not my standard. Mom's standard, because Mom's standard is higher. That is the sense of the holy thing. In Hebrew, you say something twice to mean the greatest of its kind. There is a book in the Bible called Song of Songs, which means the greatest of all songs. Jesus is called the King of kings, which means He is King over all the kings. So when heaven says He is holy, and holy, and holy, what it means is that He is completely and totally holy. Nothing is holy compared to Him. Nothing can be more holy than He is. He is all holy. Why God's Holiness Is the Reason He Is Worthy Why does that matter? Because that is precisely why He is worthy. There are no imperfections in Him. There are no problems in Him. God never has a bad day and never has a bad motive. Everything He does comes out of love and out of His holiness, because holiness is not something He is holding. Holiness is who He is. When we understand that, we understand why He is worthy. He is holy, holy, holy, the Most Holy, and therefore He is worthy. And what that does in the life of a believer is produce worship in every circumstance, no matter what. How Do You Respond to a God Who Is Holy, Holy, Holy? So the first question is settled. Is God worthy of worship? He is. He is worthy. Which means the question is no longer whether He deserves it. The question becomes what happens in you when you actually see Him. How do you respond to Someone who is holy, holy, holy? How do you respond to a Jesus who is worthy? That is the question worth carrying into your week, especially the weeks where nothing is going the way you hoped. His worth is not up for renegotiation based on your diagnosis, your bank balance, your parking spot, or the quality of the music on a Sunday morning. He was worthy before you walked in, and He will be worthy after you walk out. Everything else is just the setting in which you get to see Him clearly.

Daniel Dunn

Elder

July 26, 2026 • 9 Minute Read
How To Live Like Your Life Has A Mission
Most of us do not move through the day feeling like our lives have a mission. We are busy, we are a little self-absorbed, and we can get from morning to night without really noticing anybody. Learning how to live like your life has a mission does not start with changing your job. It starts with changing who you understand yourself to be while you are in it. For a season I traveled constantly for work. I always had my own rental car, and I would land in random cities: New York City, Pittsburgh, places all over the states and in other countries. I would wake up, read my Bible, and drag around a duffel bag holding a hundred pounds of books and commentaries, because thanks for paying your taxes, I could take whatever bags I wanted. I would set up shop wherever I landed, then head out into the city and ask God one question: where am I going today? It was a really interesting way to live, and somewhere in the middle of it I began to think of myself as an ambassador of Christ. What Does It Mean to Be an Ambassador for Christ? At some point God said something to me that reordered everything. You are no longer an operator who happens to be a Christian. You are my Kingdom ambassador who happens to work there. That was a total mindset shift. If it is true, then everything you do, everywhere you go, and every person you talk to is now on behalf of that. The next morning I woke up thinking in completely different terms: where am I going, and what am I doing for the Kingdom? This is what Paul asks of us in 2 Corinthians 5. He asks us to live life as though it is not our own, and to live as though we are representing the Kingdom of God in whatever place we happen to be embedded. Why Do the Fear of God and the Love of God Both Matter? There are two things happening in this passage. There is a fearful responsibility, and there is a compelling love. The fear of the Lord and the love of Christ are not competing truths; they balance each other. In every mature stance there is a tension between two things that seem contradictory. How do predestination and free will both work? They do. The truth is not apathetic in the middle, it is a tension. That is the way the mysteries of God tend to work, and the mature answer usually lives in the middle, holding both things at once. There are two miles of ditch in every mile of road, and people love to end up in one of them. We plant a flag in one camp or another and settle in. But the road runs between the ditches, and that is where we live, in the place where the fear of God and the love of God both compel us to go after people. I remember living inside that tension. I did not want to fall back into sin, because the fear of God had gripped me, and at the same time I wanted to go out and watch the love of God transform people. It was both. I cannot fall back, because I would be in the hand of an angry God, and yet He loves me so much. You stand there realizing it is somehow the same God. If I ended up in His judgment, I would get everything I deserved, and somehow He rescued me from all of it. He is the same loving, merciful Father who sent a Son, and now His love compels me to act on His behalf. Fear gives the weight of our calling. Love gives the confidence for it. The same holy God before whom we deserve destruction chose to reconcile us through Christ. Without reverence, love becomes casual and cheap. Without love, reverence becomes legalism. The gospel gives us both. Does Living on Mission Mean I Have to Perform? No. If this turns into a works-based religion, it will not last and it will not ring true. The love of Christ is what compels us, and it has to come out of a real well. People can tell when it is fake. Bob Mumford said it this way: it does not matter what somebody is saying to you, you know if they love you, you know if they are prejudiced against you, and you know if they hate you. You can feel it in the room. You do not have to be some discerning prophet to pick that up, because it is simply in us as human beings. The reverse is true as well. You can say some genuinely powerful and genuinely hard things to people if you love them, because they know it. They look at you and say, I know you love me, and that is why you are telling me this. Paul tells us what that love produces. "For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died. And He died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for Him who for their sake died and was raised" (2 Corinthians 5:14-15). We do not deserve this, and yet somehow we get invited into the process of watching other people transformed into the Kingdom. Love God, love people, serve both. We operate from a place of having been reconciled ourselves, transformed by the love of God in our own hearts, and now motivated by that same love to go after people in the world as His representation on the earth. Christianity begins with His love, not with guilt, pressure, or performance. I remember the day God said, “I love you.” I was washing dishes in my kitchen, and a second later I was on the floor crying, wondering where that even came from. I was just washing dishes. What Is the Nudge, and Where Does It Come From? The word Paul uses carries the sense of being held together, driven, and carried forward. That is where the nudge lives. Scripture says Jesus looked out at the crowds and was filled with compassion for them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd (Matthew 9:36). That is what moved Him. He looked at people and saw that they needed salvation and they needed the love of God. He went to the cross for the joy set before Him (Hebrews 12:2), and what motivated everything He did was the love He had for the Father and the love He had for people. That same love should motivate us. When we understand the reconciliation we have through Him, and when the Holy Spirit begins to transform us, we start to see people differently. The love of God is the nudge. You are sitting somewhere and you become aware of another person, and love is what does that. How Do You Hear God in the Middle of a Busy Day? You slow down. We are all born selfish, and I was born selfish. I can get busy and self-absorbed and move through an entire day without noticing a single person. But when I slow down and ask God what He wants to do here, and who is nearby that needs to hear something from Him, everything changes. Would you slow your life down enough to ask those questions and actually mean them? Okay, where are we going? We are going over there. We are going to talk to them. I do not even need to know what to say, because He will give me the words. Maybe the person only needs to know that God sees them. The fact that you noticed them, and that God pointed them out to you, is a place to start. A friend of mine handled it about as simply as it can be handled: “Hey, we are Christians, and we just felt like God said this.” That is a great answer. “Hey, I am a Christian, and I felt like He wanted me to tell you that He sees you.” Start there. I have said exactly that and watched people make puddles in a coffee shop. That is not the goal. The goal is obedience to the nudge. The stories I keep hearing all share a common thread. Somebody thought about a particular person. There was a nudge, a compassion that surfaced for them out of nowhere. Something in us asks, what is going on with that person over there? That is compassion, and it is the love of Christ compelling us. What Does Living on Mission Look Like on an Ordinary Day? It does not have to be anything cosmic. Pray for somebody. Encourage somebody. Buy a coffee. Make a phone call. Send a text. Sit and listen, and maybe just be quiet and let somebody talk, because that can be more powerful than anything you would have thought to say. None of that is spectacular, and that is rather the point. This is what walking in the life of the Spirit actually looks like. It is walking in the love of Christ, caring about other people, and being led by the Spirit of God through compassion and through His love. You do not need a different job, a different city, or a different assignment to live like your life has a mission. You need to understand that you are already an ambassador, embedded exactly where you are, and then slow down enough to notice the person standing in front of you.

Nick Watson

July 19, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
How To Set People Free (Without Being A Pastor)
Maybe you have heard messages about healing, deliverance, and the power of God, and quietly thought, "That is fine for the pastor. That is fine for the prophet. It is another day at the office for them. But I never had that." If that is you, I want to free you from a lie right now. You do not have to be a pastor, a prophet, or anything else to walk in what I am about to describe. You only have to be one thing. You have to be born again. Jesus gave His twelve disciples authority and sent them out to heal the sick and to deliver people from demonic power, from illness, and from every kind of affliction (Matthew 10). That same mission belongs to you. The qualification for it is not a title or a platform. Jesus said that being born of the Spirit is like the wind: "you hear the sound of it, but you do not know where it came from or where it is going" (John 3:8). You cannot always explain it. But when you are born of the Spirit, you are already in it. You Do Not Have to Be a Pastor, You Just Have to Be Born Again I have been a Christian for forty-four years, and I will tell you the truth about how it worked for me. When I first got born again, I was a lot wilder and a lot less refined than I am now. God did not teach me to live this way through great visions. I never took a trip to the third heaven and came back with a revelation to go transform the world. Instead, He taught me through something much smaller and much simpler. Sometimes I would just be somewhere, and the Lord would say, "Look at that person." And there was this little prompting on the inside. I call it the nudge. If you have walked with God for any length of time, you know exactly what I am talking about. The First Thing: Learn to Follow the Nudge Here is how the nudge would work. The Lord would say, "Look at that person," and I would look. Then He would say it again. And I would think, "They are going to think I am weird." He would say, "Look at them again." Then would come the harder part: "Go pray for them." And more than once I answered back, "I do not want to do that. They did not ask me to pray for them." He would simply say, "I asked you to pray for them." Have you ever been in a moment like that, where the nudge was working and you did not want it to? Where you got clammy and sweaty and stirred up inside? I have paced a Walmart parking lot, praying quietly to work up my faith, just to walk up to a stranger and say hello. So this is the first thing I want to give you. Learn to follow the nudge. You do not have to manufacture it. You do not have to create it. You just have to follow it. What Does It Mean to Be Led by the Holy Spirit? Being led by the Spirit is not as strange or as dramatic as people make it sound. It does not always come as some overwhelming, otherworldly experience. Most of the time, the nudge is simply compassion, pointed. You look at someone, and your heart goes out to them. You see the pain they are in, and something inside you says, "I see you." When you notice a person who is in distress, harassed and hurting like a sheep with no shepherd, and your heart breaks for them, that is the nudge too (Matthew 9:36). This is not about showing up to entertain yourself or to have a spiritual moment in public. It is about love. Love is greater than prophecy, and it is greater than knowledge (1 Corinthians 13). When you are moved by compassion, God is all about that. Now, sometimes the Spirit does get your attention in more physical ways, and He will use whatever teaches you to pay attention. Early in my walk, whenever the Lord wanted me to notice someone, my cheeks would flush blood red. I would be sitting at a table in a restaurant, not saying a word, and my wife would look at me and say, "Something is going to happen." I would ask, "What do you mean?" She would say, "Your face is red," and then she would start scanning the room, wondering who it was. Other times my hands would begin to burn hot, and I would know something was about to happen. God was patiently teaching me, "This is how you know I am here." But even with all of that, most of the time it is still the compassion that points the way. The Second Thing: Five Words That Open Every Door Once compassion has pointed you toward someone, here is the second thing, and it could not be simpler. It is five words: "Can I pray for you?" I could tell you stories all day long that started with that one question. Who is going to be offended enough to say no? A few people might, and for them you will need a different approach, but most people respond with, "Please." I was recently at a client's house. I have a side business, and this man has been my client for ten years. He is a lovely guy, and he does not know the Lord. Every time I am there, he offers me marijuana, even though he knows I am a pastor. He does not even realize I would not do that, and honestly, I love him. So I was at his house, and I asked him, "Can I pray for you?" He said, "I do not believe in a sky God, but please pray." So I laid my hands on him and prayed for him, and he started crying. He told me, "Thank God you are my friend. Thank God you love me. You have been such a good friend to me." A grown man, standing there in tears. He did not come to Jesus in that moment. But I understood something. That one question, "Can I pray for you?" opened a conversation I was not expecting, and that conversation will lead to more conversations. Sometimes those five words are the doorway that everything else crosses over. So just try it out. You Are Not Depending on Your Own Ability When these two things work together, when the nudge points you and then you ask, that is the moment where everything becomes possible. And here is the freeing part: your dependency does not rest on how good you are at any of this. It rests on the eternal Spirit who lives inside of you. Even if you have not been a Christian very long, the Holy Spirit has been here a long time. He has loved these people with an everlasting love; He has loved them a long time (Jeremiah 31:3). The one living inside of you already knows exactly what to do. That is why Jesus told His disciples not to worry about what they would say, because it would not be them speaking but the Spirit of their Father speaking in them (Matthew 10:19-20). You do not have to work up the perfect words. When the nudge hits, the Spirit of your Father is the one prompting you to go and offer those five words. You yield, you ask, and He shows you what to do. Where to Go From Here Imagine what would happen if ordinary believers were simply released into their cities to follow the nudge. You do not even have to create it. You just have to follow it. When you see someone in distress, harassed and hurting, and compassion points you toward them, go. Offer a heart of love, and ask, "Can I pray for you?" Love has a look. Love has a sound. Love has a way about it, and when it is in you, other people can see it, even people you have never met. So the next time your heart goes out to a stranger, do not talk yourself out of it. Follow the nudge, offer those five words, and watch what He does. The door swings wide, and the Holy Spirit is right there.

Tom Bedford

Senior Pastor

July 12, 2026 • 7 Minute Read
Why Do Things Get Worse After You Get Saved?
You said yes to Jesus. You expected peace, maybe even an easier road. Instead the pressure grew, old struggles came roaring back, and a quiet voice started asking whether any of it was ever real. If things seemed to get worse after you got saved, you are not doing something wrong, and you are not alone. There is a spiritual reason the battle intensifies after salvation, and understanding it changes everything about how you fight. The truth underneath all of it is simple: the Kingdom of God demands a response. The Kingdom Demands a Response Arriving at faith does not automatically transfer you into the Kingdom of light. There is a choice to make. Jesus said it plainly: "repent and believe in the gospel" (Mark 1:15). That choice is allegiance. We can pledge allegiance to a flag all day long, but what really matters is allegiance to the King of Glory. That is what faith actually is. What Allegiance to the King Actually Looks Like Consider what happens when someone becomes a citizen of a new country. In the United States, they study, they sit for a test of comprehension, and then they are sworn in. That swearing in is the moment everything changes: a new identification, a new purpose, a new citizenship. Something similar happens the moment faith sparks and you decide you no longer want to belong to the darkness. God brings you in as a citizen and gives you a new identification and a new purpose. And here is the mercy in it: God does not make you pass a test of comprehension first. What He requires is faith, allegiance, and obedience. Allegiance looks like repentance. It says, "I know what darkness looks like, and I do not want to be part of it." Notice too that when a new citizen struggles to keep the laws, they do not lose their citizenship. God does not excuse sin, but love covers a multitude of sins and struggles, because He knows we are frail beings. His mercy and grace are enough to cover what we are not yet clear on, so we can keep growing and walking with Him. This is why believing is far more than believing God exists. Scripture reminds us that even "the demons believe, and shudder" (James 2:19). Knowing God exists is not enough. We place our allegiance in Him and put ourselves under His legal claim. Many people resist that, wanting to keep their own freedom. You can keep that freedom right up until the day you are judged. I would rather be a bondservant of Christ, because "while we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8). He demonstrated His love before we ever understood it, so that when faith becomes real, surrendering to His lordship is no longer a struggle. Why Do Things Get Worse After You Get Saved? Here is where many new believers get blindsided. The moment you get saved does not stop the battles. They often intensify, and the enemy begins to whisper that maybe this was never real, that you should go back to who you were and simply serve yourself. But you were never neutral. Human beings do not begin neutral. We are born into the domain of darkness, under the old system, while Jesus already reigns as King and His Kingdom keeps expanding. Salvation is the moment you cross over from one kingdom to the other, and choosing the new system provokes a response from the one you left. We are "receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken" (Hebrews 12:28), a Kingdom that is eternal and unchanging. But deliverance from darkness does not mean darkness will stop knocking. Look at how the enemy treated Jesus. The enemy tried to hand Him the very Kingdom He came to receive, only without the suffering. When Jesus refused, the pressure turned to torment. The enemy does the same to us today. First comes the offer: take the money, the comfort, the fame, and skip serving God. When you refuse, the accusations and afflictions follow, and if we are not sure of who we are, those things can make us crumble and start looking for the exit. Does the Devil Attack You More After Salvation? The attacks are real. Darkness will still tempt you, still accuse you before God, still try to deceive you, still attempt to bring torment, and it will oppose you at every turn. That opposition is not evidence that your faith failed. It is evidence that you changed kingdoms. So what separates a believer who grows through all of this from someone who stays stuck in a miserable place full of sin and unresolved struggle? It comes down to one distinction that changes how you fight. An Attack Doesn't Require Your Agreement, but Influence Does Here is the heart of it. An attack does not require your agreement, but influence does. Darkness can knock, tempt, and accuse without your permission. It only gains influence when you start to agree with it. The trouble begins when you believe the lie: that you are nothing, that you are a nobody, that you have to become someone other than who God has said you are. That agreement shows up in recognizable ways. It manifests as condemnation and self-hatred, as self-destruction, as accusing other people, and even as accusing God. The attack by itself cannot own you. Agreement is what hands it the keys. How to Take Away Darkness's Influence If influence comes through agreement, then freedom comes through a different alignment. The answer is to keep putting yourself under the things of God and to ask Him to rule you. When life gets harder, get on your knees more often, not less. Falling back, going quiet, and ducking out is exactly what darkness wants. Pressing in tells it plainly that it does not get to own you. This is where the discipline of the Father becomes a gift rather than a punishment. When we are willing, when we actually ask for it, His discipline changes our thinking and our motives, and darkness loses its influence even while the battle continues. Repentance is the opposite of rebellion, so we stop obeying ourselves and the enemy. Faith is the opposite of unbelief, so we say, "I believe who You are, God. I believe every word that comes out of Your mouth. I surrender my own bad thinking to You. Take everything out of me that is not like You, and change it." Those are basic, foundational prayers, and they are not small. When we mean them and spend real time there, that kind of prayer life transforms us into people who honor God, walk in His will, and produce lasting things in His Kingdom. Where This Leaves You There is no middle ground. Humanity will either serve sin or serve obedience. But in Christ we are freed from sin, and by the Holy Spirit living and working in us, we can be freed even from its influence. The battle that started when you got saved is not a sign that something went wrong. It is the mark of a citizen who now belongs to a Kingdom that cannot be shaken. Darkness may still trouble you, but it does not get to own you, because you belong to the King.

Jason Guenther